Am sure you folks came across this story- http://www.oregonlive.com/printer/printer.ssf?/base/news/116555193774760.xml&coll=7&thispage=3.
A 35 year old dad of two girls. That's someone i can identify with. More so, because of the two vacations i had in Oregon. Check this map - http://maps.google.com/maps?q=Roseburg,+OR&ie=UTF8&z=9&ll=42.676378,-123.535767&spn=0.93694,2.752075&om=1. As you drive down from Oregon to California - you are likely to check out places like the Winston safari and Ashland (with its replica of Shakespeare's Globe theaters) and then you look for the best route to California.
Now you have two choices - drive past Mt. Shasta onto boring Reading and Sacramento or drive down the glorious highway 1 along the Pacific coast. Simple choice. To get to Highway 1 from Roseburg or thereabouts you can take Highway 42 (shortest route) or go further down and take 199. Obviously you want to do the 42.
The right turn at the 42 is near Winston. You are likely to miss this turn - i did so on both my vacations. On the second occasion, i was 50 miles past Winston when i realized the error. That turn isnt as easy to spot as it should be.
On the first vacation, we were looking to get to Steamboat from Eugene - http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&hl=en&q=eugene,+OR&ie=UTF8&om=1&z=8&ll=43.729429,-122.783203&spn=1.841869,5.50415&iwloc=addr. We looked at some Rand-McNally maps and figured there was shortcut no one knew about. 30 minutes of ever narrowing roads finally ended in a dirt track. We knew we were lost and an old gentleman who could have been from the sets of Deliverance (http://imdb.com/title/tt0068473/) turned up to confirm our status. "Oh thats a nice car you have. You could be lost for days on these roads if you dont know the road numbers. You can drive around for days and run out of gas."
Hope his family finds peace. If any of you can, do contribute at jamesandkati.com. My wish is the money goes to better rescue infrastructure and safety signs in Josephine county.
Thanks for reading thus far!